Monthly Archives: January 2012

She’s Got Legs, She Knows How to Use Them

While suffering from a bad cold recently, I wound up laying under-nourished on the living room floor with a box of Special K, shoveling grains from the box. No, not a drama queen oh-woe-is-me display. I was alone except for two cats, and though they were nearby and looking concerned (or maybe confused? unusual human behavior for sure), they don’t fall for human drama tricks. They’re far too smart.

While in this sorry state and unusual viewpoint, I noticed legs: sofa legs, chair legs, teak coffee table legs shaped like Chinese opium bed legs, Ming style table legs. And the differences and harmonies across all these legs.

Teak “opium bed” coffee table leg & chair leg – I love the light/dark contrast.

Our living room furniture’s legs were one reason for pairing the pieces together. But since then the legs have stood silent and still, doing their jobs all day every day without appreciation. They’ve become visible but invisible. Quick, right now without peeking first, could you grab a pencil and draw the legs of your furniture?

Now I’ve noticed that the graceful curves and shapely gams are still at their best. Here’s some shots of the various legs:

Painted cabinet from Thailand under a Ming console table.

Teak coffee table we found in Chiang Mai, Thailand.

Teak coffee table, pillow hand-sewn with Indian jacquard silk, leather sofa from Retrospect and a wood rice goddess that we found in Baan Tawai, Thailand.

Chaai, found and rescued in Chicago. His name is Thai for “boy” or “man.”

This guy didn’t let me out of sight during the entire photo session. Here his tail was thumping. Why so annoyed? I thought he’d appreciate that I’m interested in our home from his perspective, but maybe I’m discovering secrets I wasn’t supposed to know about?

Attention deflection strategies work on humans too. He takes me in this direction. Why? Let’s see …

Pottery from a Michigan artist, Thai baskets, Ming console table. And yeah the dreaded wall-to-wall shag carpet.

Brass rain drum and wood rice god converted into a lamp. Both found in Thailand.

I’ve never liked all the orangey oak trim/door/window stain around the house, but there is a lot of it all over the house and it’s a big project to change it. And I’ve never settled on curtain rods so you can still see the white slider-thingy holding the curtains. So instead, let’s focus on what we do like: I’ve always liked the mix of the chunky light table legs with the dark polished sofa legs.

Leather sofas and mirror from Retrospect, coffee table and rain drum and rice god statue from Thailand. Indestructible rug from Home Decorators Collection.

My husband’s mrindangum — a South Indian drum — from his childhood.

Now there’s some noise above me, and air moving. I look up and … hey ma, what are you doing down there? he asks.

Well, I’m just trying to understand the world as you see it, I say. Ah, I see, he says. Carry on.

The legs of a rice goddess.

Little Thai cabinet tucked under Ming console table.

Chunky candlesticks under the same Ming console table.

So lay down on the floor sometime, and look at your rooms from a different perspective. You may be surprised by what you notice.

(And what a fitting title, as right now I have ZZ Top’s raspy thin voice thanks to this cold. I was wishing for something more Lauren Bacall-ish.)

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Why I Vote for Not Making the Bed

Let us count the reasons …

10. Few people see it unmade. And if I think it’s possible someone will see the bedroom – such as people checking in on pets while we’re on vacation – I will make the bed.

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9. Of the people who do see it, I really don’t care what they think about it not being made. Honestly. I believe they are close enough to me to judge my worth in this world based on other things.

8. No magazine will photograph my master bedroom on a surprise unscheduled visit any time soon.

7. And if this did happen to happen, I prefer photographs of unmade beds. They’re far more interesting. Don’t believe it? Check out my Pinterest Bedrooms Board. See if you look at the photos of sheets and blankets with perfect hospital corners as long as you look at the photos of crumpled bedding.

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6. Actually, the argument that “the bed will get messy again soon” doesn’t hold water. So will dinner plates get messy again soon. I wash plates despite that fact. The litterbox will get messy again soon (often as soon as I turn my back on it). Nevertheless, I still clean the litterbox. Weeds will make the gardens messy again right after I pull the weeds. I still pull the weeds. So the reason to not make the bed must be something else …

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5. If the purpose is to build discipline and routine, there are many other ways to practice that. I clean the litterbox regularly. I hang towels the same way every day and they must be straight. I have a pretty darn solid coffee-drinking routine. Same thing with blueberry scones — pretty regular eating schedule there too. I wear some kind of footwear every day I go somewhere public, without fail. I always use a key to start my car engine. I always leave my house through a door. See? No problem with routines and discipline here.  :)

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4. It’s important to be committed to your convictions. I blogged exactly one year ago today about this admiration of unmade beds. I still have the same beliefs. See? Strong consistent convictions.

3. Making the bed turns into cat playtime, with sharp claws grasping the sheets to stop sheets from moving. Great fun for felines, but it increases the chance that sheets and down comforters will tear and need repair or replacement. Better to not make the bed and have the cats play with fake mice instead.

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2. While making the bed, I often bump my shins or knees on the bedframe and get bruises. It hurts. Who willingly puts themselves repeatedly – daily – in situations where physical pain happens? Best to avoid that.

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And the #1 reason to not make your bed?

1. It wastes time. Even just 3 minutes to make the bed = 18.25 hours per year = 1,450 hours over an 80-year lifespan = 60.83 days of your life spent making the bed! Why?!? There are far better things to do with two months of life!

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 +1. A bonus reason! Stylist Emily Henderson appreciates unmade beds too.

2012 Goal: Look Less, Do More

2011 was not my proudest year.

Yes 2011 was the year that this little blog started taking off and there are now many tens of thousands of visitors. Thank you so much, wonderful readers who are following along!! I hope you’ve found inspiration for your homes and your lives. I love to hear from you, by email or comments!

Yes 2011 was the year that the India pied-à-terre became more than an empty shell of concrete walls. It’s getting dressed up with the elements that make the space a home.

But … and you know there’s always a but … something important was lacking last year: Color. And creating.

Sad Face Illustration by Mary Vogel Lozinak available at Etsy.

I’ve always loved to create. And I didn’t create enough. I spent too much time looking at what others created.

Yes I certainly got inspired in 2011. I got ideas. My eyes got trained a little more. My hard drive got full of images (well, until Pinterest came along). I got lots of supplies for many planned projects for both the pied-à-terre in India …

India Elephant on Upcycled Book Paper by TreasuresByUs available at Etsy.

… and our home in Chicago ….

Chicago Streets Canvas Art by Stephen Fowler available at Etsy.

But at the end of 2011, that’s what my projects still were … planned. It’s time to make them happen. Some projects are big, like for years I’ve wanted to paint our oak kitchen cabinets and the walls to change the entire look of the kitchen. With oak cabinets, oak island and oak floors, there’s waaaaay too much oak. It needs freshening up.

Others are Saturday afternoon projects, like an Hermes-inspired orange tray with an India theme. And sewing copper Hundi lanterns for the India apartment. Yes!! Doesn’t that sound fabulous?! How can these projects stay locked up in my mind?

Lock & Key Leather Notebook by Fullmoonn available at Etsy.

Which means I’ll shift to posting more original content this year. My photos may not be quite as good as Elle Decor’s. But the ideas I’ve had bottled up are ready to burst out, and I hope you like what’s coming!

Emily Dickenson Hope Contemporary Print available at Etsy shop catalyst54

2012 Goal: Be Bolder, Brighter, BIGGER

“Be like, BAM.”

Someone wrote that on a Pinterest pin, and it struck me. That’s what 2012 should be.

Instead of a beige terrycloth robe (like, uh, my robe), get a robe made of strips of faux fur. And not just one fur, many furs mixed together! Like the robe I got for my sister for Christmas. Here the robe has already gone on a tropical vacation and nearly had its own cabana boy for lunch:

Why not get a robe like that for myself? See now, that’s why the need for a goal.

Instead of a regular ol’ 3-foot scarf, get a 10-foot long chunky scarf and wrap it around and around with some to spare. Like the scarf that my sister and her husband made for me for Christmas:

Instead of the small reclining Buddha that you can cradle in one hand, get the 42″ long reclining Buddha you can see from clear across the whole India apartment:

Instead of a dainty mirror, get the big rustic wood and metal mirror with strength and presence, even if you can’t yet figure out how you’ll get it to India. You will figure it out eventually and it will look fabulous in the entry next to the 100-year-old main door which is polished on the front, but has exposed bolts and a big rustic sliding wood lock on the interior side (you went bold with that choice, why not keep going):

Believe me, the mirror is big. When it arrived on the porch I thought “what are we going to do with this thing?” Well the India apartment does have 10-foot ceilings and big open spaces. Plenty of room for a big mirror.

Instead of baubles that don’t yell out “be like, BAM” get the blingy stuff with big personality. When I wear delicate pieces, no one comments on them. When I wear a 5″ cuff of gold, even when it’s dark at an atmospheric candlelit charity dinner, it shines in the candlelight and gets attention and questions. Here’s a pile of various bangles and bracelets from my jewelry drawer. Back in December there were many more, but I shared the loot with female family for Christmas:

Believe it or not, this post actually isn’t about acquiring more! Overall, get less. Rather, when you do have to get something, make it count, really count.